Hey guys, i know it’s been more than a minute and i sincerely apologise for the inconsistencies, yea i may have lost some of my readers but i’m sure i’ll gain a few more as i plan to be back fully.
Today i want to talk from a personal POV, something i’m sure we can all relate with. We often encounter people, situations, events whatever you choose to name it that oh well didn’t end so smoothly, and we tend to portray other people, surrounding factors,causes, as the culprits while we always remain the victim,spotlighting others faults when you have the cleanest records. Have you stopped maybe to think critically, i mean examine thoroughly that maybe just maybe the fault and blame is equally yours just as much or even more.
As we all know no one is presumed as perfect,spotless,completely innocent,everyone has one skeleton or the other in their cupboard just that some can be buried forever while some needs to be exposed,the question then is why do we neglect the self examination and self reflection part and just jump in to blame anyone else but ourselves?.
Blaming others for your failures, negligence, carelessness or “i don’t care attitude” isn’t going to make the problem disappear, in-fact you’re doing yourself more harm than good, because you’re not only lying to yourself but you’re killing yourself bit by bit because where is the room for growth and development?, if there isn’t even a problem to begin with, i got to understand this after some self reflection,”I am absolutely responsible for the outcome of my life”, no matter who or what had a play in it period!, stop the blame game! and most of all stop making excuses! get up, dust yourself, focus on making yourself better than you were yesterday that’s enough a challenge already,that’s enough to focus on.
Do something better come on, stop blaming that parent,that lecturer, that friend, if not that you so so and so. Okay what move have you made with that burning rage inside, nothing ?? channel that into something and make a beautiful story and ending for yourself…it’s all about YOU!
MIMI'S CREATIVE MIND 